The wolf sex woman’s game of unspoken rules in the workplace
Women’s introspective ability is more developed than that of men. Because of the traditional view, women have a strong “inferiority” in life, especially in their careers. Professional women often exaggerate their disadvantages and weaknesses, which is worth considering:Nothing works, so it’s easy to get into depression.
From hating oneself to being sluggish and listening to fate, professional women’s horizons have become narrower and narrower, and their strengths and advantages are invisible.
For example, “Work cannot be compared to men, women are too stupid.
“” A woman’s job is to find something to do. You can’t take it seriously. You have to rely on men to fight.
“” Girls don’t toss about work, just get home and kids ready.
“Maybe you think women’s” inferiority “is frustrating. In fact, this” inferiority consciousness “is the source of motivation for wolf sex.
Psychology believes that people have a psychological tendency to compensate for inferiority and have the instinct to try to supplement their shortcomings. As long as you have this psychological characteristic of “compensating for inferiority,” you can attribute yourself to the pessimism caused by “inferiority consciousness.”Helplessly gradually improve the opportunity for their own struggle.
In fact, everyone is very small. Whether men or women, everyone’s struggle is actually a process of constantly accumulating their own inferiority, and it is difficult to grow in the process of replacement.
Mencius said: “So the heavens will descend to the people of Sri Lanka, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their bones, starve their skin, empty their bodies, and disturb their actions.
Mencius’s point of view is basically at the level, and it is very consistent with the psychological laws of people. Only when we find our weaknesses and feel that we are tortured by “inferiority consciousness”, can we really find the growth that is catching up.opportunity.
Professional women often suffer from conscious afflictions: they are physically inferior to men and cannot withstand the rhythm of full load, they are less likely to be promoted than men, hard work is discriminated against . etc. At this time, you don’t have to cower or blame yourself. When your heartWhen you have accumulated enough free radical energy, what you need to do is to convert it into energy that can promote your own development. Please see the following psychological formula: “Identify my own weakness-women are inferior to men (producing inferior consciousness) suffering depression (“Energy accumulation”-burst (compensation)-self-improvement “This is the psychological formula of female wolf sex.
Workplace struggle is also a “game”. Women and men are both game participants. According to this formula to analyze their careers, we will use a game-style attitude to face ourselves firmly.
At this moment, your wolf consciousness has been quietly boiling . There is such a phenomenon in the workplace. In the company, some employees have choked Lou Zi and did not do well. If he just said, “Sorry, nextAttention.
“And then, as usual, we seemed to be very angry; if he repeatedly made” deep changes “, we would feel very comfortable.
One of the unique strengths of working women is their ability to persevere and reflect.
First accept a task, you will prepare and plan without any details, before you start, you will predict the situation of failure many times, and once you fail, you will fall into blame and cannot extricate yourself.
Ms. Liu, 23 years old, is an administrative clerk. Although the administrative work is trivial, she has little responsibility and has many things to do. She also makes a lot of mistakes.
She told me that I didn’t want to take these minor mistakes to heart, but the manager would criticize me for not learning the lesson, and I changed profoundly, the degree became more and more “profound,” but the manager was very satisfied.I feel more and more stupid.
Women in the workplace should honestly have a bottom line. The so-called profound changes are just to please their bosses, and have no positive meaning to themselves.
How can we seriously reflect on our mistakes and get through the setbacks in the workplace without affecting the psychology?
Distinguish the failing behavior from yourself, and distinguish yourself from failure and “self” who finds results and receives lessons.
If your own approach doesn’t work, you don’t have to give up. You can’t change one method to another. Don’t deny your efforts because of this, saying “I can’t do such a thing, I’m useless.”
Practice and yourself are two different things. Mixing them up will only make your mood worse.
Only when you try new methods with vigor and energy will your real failure lessons be truly embedded and helpful, otherwise, you will only become increasingly embarrassed in the company.
The cause of failure comes down to “behavior” rather than yourself. Whenever the number of such acts increases, your personal choice ability will become higher and higher. This is why some professional women can strengthen their personal ability after a single failure., And encounter similar problems can calm down the psychological reasons.
A wolf woman always has a group of “bad friends” who can talk freely, tease each other, and play tricks with friends who can prank together. This method of making friends seems to subvert the traditional “friend view”, but psychologicallypositive effect.
By shelving the values of fear, rudeness, and rudeness, arbitrary interpersonal states can effectively relieve one’s stress and tension.
We all know that the circle of friends can increase your happiness and relax the psychological burden, but usually, there are two ways to eliminate stress. One is to eliminate yourself, not to be distracted by anyone and everything. Being alone is a lot of girls. “”Dad” psychological reasons.
The other is to relax yourself unreservedly in front of friends.
It is recommended that you and your friends talk without words. The slightly irritating and sincere truth can sometimes cause intense evolution. This kind of decompression effect is particularly good.
Don’t close yourself, or make friendship too far away and serious. Friends can only be associated with happiness instead of using it. Then your tired and tired heart in the workplace will be relieved in “pranks”.
Private circle: If you change clothes, such as a knife, you will be dressed up before going out in the morning. A sentence like “going to work” will make the little girl emotional.
After going home from work, after bathing, I put on my pajamas and feel comfortable.
Clothing is highly influencing women’s mental state.
To change your mood, you may also pay attention to your clothes often, “changing clothes like changing a knife”. Professional women should pay special attention to this.
When you are on a business trip, do you pay attention to bringing casual clothes, to a new place, walking with local friends, clubbing, shopping malls, this kind of workplace status is very positive.
The famous Hong Kong writer Yi Shu’s female images have wolf characteristics. They wear cashmere sweaters, brand-name flat shoes under their feet, and they hate high heels.
Valuable handbag, the house is big enough to ride a bicycle.The honey-skinned skin, sharp teeth, and unwillingness to forgive others. The songs I listen to are old songs. The most common quote is Byron ‘s poem: “After years of farewell, or if we meet again, what do we say?
Tears flowed silently.
“Thus, the view that” strong women “are stereotyped, dogmatic, withdrawn, etc. is just a prejudice against working women.